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From the Soldiers: Heart and Soul

We have collected many, many stories from soldiers over the years and thought we would start to share them with you.  Some are great stories of good things happening in Iraq, Afghanistan and elsewhere our soldiers are serving.

A few of the stories we may share are the everyday struggles of these men and women as they adjust to being home, recuperating from injuries sustained, looking for work, trying to start over.

And then of course, we do have those soldiers that come home and want to get on the next plane and go back because they feel that the mission is not yet complete and they want to be a part of it..........


. . . . . Oh and dad hold up on that sling cause I have an M-16A2 right now but I will be getting an M-4 when I get to 1st Battlion. Oh yeah and one of the 1st cav guys is giving me his buttstock mag pouch. so don't worry about that either. I think that we may be coming home early to. Thats the word around camp but you know the army, don't beleive it untill it happens. I have met some great people  out here and also a nice girl that is livin in lafayette. She's not from lafayette but thats where she goes to school. For now at least.  Dad I need you to start pricing some houses for me so I can be on my own when I get back. One like Rhonda's will do, same size but a nicer interior.  Send me some brochures if they have them or at least some pictures. I am a man now and I need to start livin like it and also see if you can get me a job offshore or something to that nature so I can work my way up. 
Right where I belong. On top of things just like you. With your guidance it shouldn't take me long. If you can't find one offshore I was wondering if you could get me on at the pipe yard. If all else fails 
then I'll go work on AGR jobs. Or maybe stay in the guard and do the jobs where you go and help the active army. Then I could travel and see some new places and get paid doing it. Like you told me you can never have enough riflemen. So I know they would have the slots for it.  I think I may volunteer for Afgahnistan. If you do 2 years out of country as a guardsmen then they can't deploy you for 5 years. I may go active, I'm not sure. But even if I go active I'll still wear this combat patch. 
Its a southern soldier kinda thing.  On a different note Its been pretty calm around here. No mortars, no machine gun fire, and I haven't heard any carbombs outside the wire for the last two days. Even though its been quiet its still dangerous cause the ones you don't hear are the ones that will get you. I have heard outgoing artillary fire and its a great sound. It sounds like victory.  It sounds like someones getting their butts kicked around here. We had such a show of force for the elections its not even funny. I think we hurt the hollabukis(Its what we call these insurgents) feelings by making sure the Iraqis got to vote. I think they are starting to realize that they aren't wanted and that resistance is futile. Dad you should see this. You and I know we are the most powerful military in the
world but now I know why. I know and these hollabukis know we run the show and its awesome what we can do when we want to. We are working with some outdated equipment. Not all but some but we make the most of it and use it to its fullest. We still have M113s out here and man they are 
taking a beating but we still make the most of them. What I realized its not the technology its the men that are here and make the most of what we have to work with. I mean you should see the improvised armor out here.  Pretty crude but effective. Its a long and bitter war that we are going 
to have to fight but we will be victorious. I was talking to this Kurd today and he says that the only reason they don't say how much they are glad we are here openly is they are scared out of their wits. It is still dangerous for them but they are better off than when saddam was here and they are glad we are here to remove him and his regime and rebuild this country and its army. So they might be able to protect themselves. He is a good guy and after that he told me he was a kurdish 
man so I asked him about when saddam gased his people and he just said those where very bad days for them. I bought a painting from him after that and I'll send it home. I want ya'll to take care of it until I get home and then it'll go in my house. It is a beautiful picture. The guy hand painted it and he was a good man so I bought it as a souviner to remember the time I spent here and the people we are helping. So make sure the kids can't get their hands on it and destory it. Please keep it safe for me. Many of these people are good people and all they want is to live in peace but then you have these ali babas (theives in arabic) who want to loot and steal and kill for profit and its not right.
I am glad we are here but we have taking up a great, hard, and dangerous task and we will lose some people and spend a great deal of money but we will be victorious and the world will not be able to talk down on us after it is all said and done and then we can say "Well where was France,
where was Russia, and the germans when we made these people free with the hardships and lives of our men and women?" Then the world will see them in a bad light and we will still be # 1. Once it is all said and done you will see what I am saying. Thats enough preachin for now. I love ya and take care. Remember to send my stuff to that address. I love ya'll very much and I'll be home as soon as possible. God bless ya'll and God bless the south and those who stand beside her!!!
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> Ryan

> P.S. Please foward this message to everyone to let them know I'm doing good and what I think about this war


Families often wonder what happens to their soldiers after they say their "goodbyes".  Since I'm a civilian, I can honestly tell you I really never thought about it until I joined the first unit deploying from Fort Hood in 2002.  This engineering battalion helped me re-landscape several of our area schools as part of the adopt-a-school program that is common around military bases. 

I gathered up 6,000 homemade cookies from around town, a roll of smiley face stickers to put on the kids along with two friends and off to Fort Hood we went.

Upon our arrival at the parking lot we sat back and watched soldiers with all their gear and weapons, all the kids running around, the wives hugging (some crying), parents looking sad and said to ourselves, "what in the world have we gotten into?"

Well, we got right in the middle of it!  We put out our cookies and started talking to the families and the stickers didn't just go to the kids.  I put stickers on everybody.  I just didn't really know what to do, it was one of the hardest moments in my life and then it happened......

A soldier by himself came up and asked us how much our cookies were for sale. He wished to purchase some for his long plane ride.  That was the beginning of the TMFF.  We have now assisted with the deployments of over 100,000 soldiers.  But back to my story.

When the soldiers say goodbye to their loved ones, they are then sent to a manifest site.  They process in (check weights, baggage, accountability)  but what they never expect is what is there at this site waiting for them.  You see, the military realized sending soldiers off upset at saying goodbye is really not a good thing.  The military asked for assistance from a few good organizations such as TMFF, Red Cross, USO, Salvation Army.  At the manifest site we are a team.  We come together to provide an uplifting atmosphere for the soldiers before they depart.  A meal or snacks, last minutes items that may have been forgotten, or something small to take on the plane such as a deck of cards, a bible, a new book. One thing each soldier gets is a hug coming in and a hug going out.  Each soldier is told, "thank you for your service".  Families need to know that there is one more stop for these young men and women.  Day or night, 24 hours a day we are there for them and we see them board and we pray for their safe return.  We often are asked to check on families that are having difficulties, we provide our phones for them to make that last minute call home, and we are deeply honored and privileged to be there for them.  

They leave us focused on the mission at hand...they make us proud.



I met a soldier one day, he was a 21 year old with cancer.  He had gone to serve his country for seven months before he became ill and was sent back to the US after he had had surgery in Germany.

He asked me about his condition one day and since I am not a health care provider, I could only refer him to the google or med sites for him to do research on his condition.  Once he became complete aware of his diagnosis, prognosis, etc.  He again asked me a question at which I replied, what did you do before you were called upon to serve your country?  He said, "ma'am, I am a college student".  I realized then that this soldier leaving with the benefits at hand were not adequate for what he may face at a later date.  We needed to ensure that this soldier had the ability to receive treatment at anytime in the future and also to receive the full seven year protocol that he was facing and that really couldn't be possible with the 2 years of VA service these soldiers are given when they go home.  We worked together, I learned a lot about the procedures, but what the soldier left with was hope and security and benefits for life.

The day this young man left, he stopped by to give me a hug.  We talked for a while about his future plans and then he looked me dead in the eye.  He said, "ma'am, you made a tremendous difference in my life, please don't ever stop helping us"..........................


Today, April 28th, 2006

As the soldiers and I prepared for the storms coming to the area a call came into the office from Arkansas.  I wasn't going to take the call because we were busy pulling in all the chairs and belongings from outside and the weather had called for some really nasty weather. 

But, I was handed the phone anyway and told to take the call.  It was a family readiness group in Arkansas trying to find out about one of their soldiers.  The soldier was stationed here for a long time and he visited with us everyday. He had become part of the family before he was discharged and had decided to move to Houston.

We kept up with Joe.  He would let us know how he was doing and oftentimes would let us know when a soldier was in need of assistance in Arkansas.

At first, I really didn't understand who the person on the phone was or what he was telling me and then it sank in.  We lost Joe.  The emotion and turbulance that went through my mind buckled my knees.  I felt ill. 

I cried.  I don't think that was how it was described to me later this afternoon, but those that were witness now really know just how much they mean to us.  The soldiers that were here today had never, ever seen me cry. 

We lost a great person, a great soldier and I'm sure his parent's would say a wonderful son. 

 


June 14, 2006

A Milblogger Speaks on the Homefront

I have a special treat for my readers today, a guest blogger, Jarred Fishman, aka The Air Force Pundit.  I want to thank Jarred for taking the time to write this and for his insightful commentary.  I post his his piece in its entirety, and unedited.  Enjoy:

My good friend Bill Crawford has asked me to pen a short essay on the view of the military towards those back here on the home front. As a serving member of the Reserve component, there are several salient issues which have to be addressed when discussing political-military relations.

First, every member of the US military is taught that the civilian branch of our government always reigns supreme. That even though Air Force Chief of Staff General Moseley is my boss, it is actually HIS boss Secretary of Defense Rumsfeld who wields ultimate control over our military. So, there is a fine line one must tread when analyzing how the military views those politicians who direct our actions. Furthermore, through the Constitution which we all swore to protect and defend- we realize that it is the political class that will always control our fates to one degree or another. Article 88 of the Uniform Code of Military Justice states that “Any commissioned officer who uses contemptuous words against the President, the Vice President, Congress, the Secretary of Defense, the Secretary of a military department…or possession in which he is on duty or present shall be punished as a court-martial may direct.” Clearly then, a professional member of the military must never demonstrate contempt to any of our duly elected representatives. This policy serves to maintain order in the ranks, and is a fundamental bulwark of our Republic.

You will not hear long discourses by those in the military on nebulous concepts of “treason” or “summer patriots” or “chickenhawks”. The majority of those serving in the military have neither the time nor the inclination to engage in such polemics. What you will hear is a singular question. And that question is, “do the people back at home have a true and valid conception of what is happening overseas?”

Many in the military blogger community are constantly surprised when they return Stateside at the end of their combat deployment. To them, we are engaged in a very difficult campaign, but one in which the United States has succeeded to a significant degree. The fact that: the homeland has not been attacked since 9/11; there have been two national elections in Iraq; one Constitutional ratification; as well as upcoming regional elections in that country. The fact that: thousands of schools; hospitals; and police stations have been built and refurbished; that every day, there are more Iraqi Interior Ministry and Army forces hitting the streets on patrol with our forces. The fact that there is now a functioning permanent Cabinet serving in Baghdad, with non-sectarian leaders holding the critical positions for Minister of Defense and National Security Advisor. These are all real and important achievements.

Four years ago these actions would have been unimaginable events taking place within the despotism of Saddam Hussein and the heart of the Arab Middle East. Deservedly, our Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen and Marines rightfully believe they have made great sacrifices in the furtherance of a great and just cause. At the same time however, many are confused as to why grunts on the front lines of Baquba and Ramadi seem to possess a better overall strategic perspective on the war against terror than certain people back in Washington. From reading their blogs, it seems to them that a minority of politicians believe they have carte blanche to utter untrue statements about our forces- and this fills many with heartache and sadness. The overwhelming majority of our military forces around the world believe that we are winning. And that we will continue to win this war- as long as the political establishment continues its support for the mission. Today I listened to various sound clips from a certain politician, claiming that “our children are being sent to war with no plan for victory.” 

I am not sure which “child” she is talking about, as everyone who enlists has at least graduated from high school and is old enough to drive and vote. And as I just confirmed, there is a 38 page document on the White House website which lays out exactly what our plan for victory entails. It is entitled “Our National Strategy for Victory in Iraq.” So many in the military community are simply puzzled as to the disconnect between what they observe, and what some in Washington and the media observe. Many media articles which portray our forces as inept or in over their heads indeed have insidious effects on the warfighter- and not because it weakens their own resolve. Instead, when the media publishes untrue statements, it gives succor to our vicious enemies, and demoralizes our families and the general populace of our country.

The jihadists realize they can not beat us on the battlefield- at this stage they rarely engage our troops directly other than through improvised explosive devices. But they are crafty enough to realize that if they can cause as much violence and mayhem as possible, parts of the media and political class in Congress may exert pressure on the Administration to retreat on the precipice of victory. This is part of the strategy of our enemies- and is the greatest fear of those in the military. Many fear that as success in Mesopatamia is within our grasp, we will not follow through until final victory is attained.

Many military bloggers believe that often times members of the media and partisan operatives portray our forces in a needleesly negative light. Furthermore, if we were to enact the policies of the “pull out now crowd” we would be faced with the following consequences: thousands of innocent civilians would be butchered throughout Iraq; Al-Qaeda would achieve its greatest victory; our allies would learn to no longer trust the word of the United States; Iran and its nuclear program would be emboldened; and sooner rather than later we would be hit on the streets of New York rather than Fallujah. Many in the military- who have been schooled in doctrine, strategy, and tactics realize that any counter insurgency operation is going to prove both difficult and slow. They only ask that those in the rear consistently tell the truth about them, rather than making their job more difficult and painful.

Lieutenant Jarred Fishman, USAFR

Posted by Bill Crawford on June 14, 2006 at 10:51 AM | Permalink


 
     

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